Forgiveness doesn’t mean forget what happened. … If something is serious and it is necessary to take counter-measures, you have to take counter-measures.
—Tenzin Gyatso, 14th Dalai Lama
Sin has many tools, but a lie is the handle which fits them all.
—Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr.
I’m not surprised that a religious person would make his spiritual advisor aware of a stressful problem such as ongoing harassment from the Cabin Boy™. I’d be more surprised if Patrick Grady hadn’t sought spiritual support from his church family. I have from mine. Bill Schmalfeldt has no idea how many people are praying for him and the people he harasses and for justice.
The Cabin Boy™ claims to be a Catholic. I wonder how long it’s been since he went to confession and actually confessed?