Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.
Just so. The Cabin Boy™ rages on.
He schemes and plots but without any understanding of the law or the Rules of Civil Procedure or the Rules of Evidence. Indeed, if he understood the Rules of Evidence, he would know that spousal privilege would prevent calling someone’s wife to testify about communications with her husband and with what she had seen him do or not do.
He who knows when he can fight and when he cannot will be victorious.